Culture can be defined as being the shared patterns of behaviours and social interactions, cognitive constructs and affective understanding that are learned through a process called socialisation or in other words a way of life. There are many different types of culture, and they all have there similarities and differences. Some people would say that family is one of the most important aspects of a person’s life, and would highly recommend it. However this can not be said for the culture of the IK of Northern Uganda.
They strongly believe that ‘family means very little’, and that there is no need for it. Basically they go by the system of “every man for themselves”; the children are even ‘regarded as useless appendages’ since they apparently use up “precious resources”. The Promo Indians would be horrified by the IK’s approach towards family since they highly recommend family and that without it “we are nothing”. Families are highly promoted in my culture since I am African, so we would lean towards the promo Indians.
I believe that having a family gives you a sense of belonging and that there will be someone there who loves you and cares for. I also believe that the Nayar society of southern also stress the importance of family as they say “with us family is everything”, furthermore they also have that sense of security as if “a Nayar girl got pregnant it was important that one of the husbands claimed that the child was his”. When someone gets married, especially in my culture you’re expected to support each other in every way possible.
The IK culture would strongly disagree with this as they believe that if they “struggle to survive in the face of drought, famine and starvation” what are they doing supporting another person when they are in need themselves. They don’t support any of their family at all and the “sick and disabled children too are abandoned”. The Promo Indians would strongly be in opposition to the IK cultures views on support and the same goes to my culture as well.
The Promo Indians believe in support to the extent of that “we would suffer the devils, spirits, ghosts or other people if we did not support one another”. The Nayar society of southern, do believe in supporting each other however, it focuses on blood supporting blood and anything outside of blood cannot support them or it was limited. Even husband and wife cannot support each other; “husbands were expected to give their wife’s gifts but did not maintain them in any way; the Nayar women relied n their own brothers and sisters”.